Navigating Marital Paradigms: Exploring Attitudes towards Monogamy and Polygamy in Colombo, Sri Lanka

This qualitative study investigates the perspectives on monogamous and polygamous relationships among individuals in Colombo, Sri Lanka, taking into account the impact of personal experiences, cultural norms, and societal expectations. The study conducts in-depth interviews with 60 participants from various cultural backgrounds, spanning ages 18 to 40 and 40 and above, to explore how individuals navigate the interplay between traditional values and contemporary influences in their intimate relationships. The results indicate a nuanced relationship among personal background, cultural influences, and social expectations, which collectively inform individuals’ views and decisions about marriage ideals. The narratives of participants reveal differing viewpoints, showcasing the vibrant cultural landscape of Colombo. While some maintain conventional principles of loyalty and dedication, others champion personal freedom and self-actualization. Furthermore, the study investigates how beliefs about monogamy and polygamy are passed down through generations within families and communities, highlighting the lasting impact of cultural heritage on relationship dynamics. The findings culminate in recommendations aimed at enhancing cultural sensitivity, fostering individual autonomy, and tackling systemic barriers to cultivate a more inclusive and equitable society. Further research is recommended to deepen understanding and inform targeted interventions for fostering healthy and respectful relationships within the community.