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Fluid Swipes and Solid Care on Dating Apps: Interviews with Midlife Single Parents in Norway

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  • Plata S. Diesen

    (Department of Communication, Kristiania University of Applied Sciences, 0153 Oslo, Norway)

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This article examines how single parents in Norway approach dating apps as they re-enter romantic life, by asking: How do single parents in midlife approach and anticipate intimacy on dating apps in Norway? The analysis draws on interviews with 10 mothers and 12 fathers, aged 32–51, and applies a reflexive thematic analysis. The findings show that entering dating apps was experienced as an affective hurdle, tied to recovery from family breakup and ambivalence about visibility. Dating apps offered a feasible route to intimacy, as offline encounters were otherwise constrained by time scarcity, limited social networks, and social entanglements through overlapping parental and friendship ties. The concept of parental filtering is introduced to describe how participants screened through dating apps for compatibility in custody schedules and parental empathy, using bios and chats as communicative shortcuts. The findings highlight a central paradox of post-separation intimacy: while romantic relationships may be reversible, parenthood is not. Intimate life as a single parent, therefore, requires a particular form of elasticity, as romantic opportunities must continuously adjust to the solid bonds to their children—a commitment that no swipe can dissolve.

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  • Plata S. Diesen, 2026. "Fluid Swipes and Solid Care on Dating Apps: Interviews with Midlife Single Parents in Norway," Social Sciences, MDPI, vol. 15(7), pages 1-16, July.
    • Handle: RePEc:gam:jscscx:v:15:y:2026:i:7:p:471-:d:1989819
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